Streamless

Dead lives, I worry endless
Of all the failed, elaborate plans of mankind
Which may never see the light of day
They await their demise, unless awoken
Never too late to make a difference.
What sort of banter is?
will it ever see the light of day?
A furious awakening
It might be spit fire and appear to fester
The deadened soul sees no desire
no harness, no weighty claims for the future
Those who seek will find reward in harmony.
Never the less, the rope may tear
for all those who yearn to climb its golden walls.
Of all the fears that plague mankind
It is not the fear of death or the fear of being lost
Nor the fear of being branded nothing
It is the fear of will-less-ness.
The fear that there is nothing to go on for
Nothing to seek, there are no green fields on the other side
Only fields of mud where rows of planted corn and potatoes look the same.
Life becomes dull. A reason to exist.
We live like each other. We look like each other.
A part of the masses.
Every minute is a struggle in itself. None is free from it.
Those who roam free are free from it.
but those who are held in bondage do not see it
Can i record every single thought? Would it make sense?
Or is it just a haphazard rendering.
What is goodness afterall? It is not just a trail of the mighty.
From pain, also comes goodness.
From thought is faith.
And from faith is worship.
Consider a life where there is no thought, no faith and no worship.
How brilliantly qualified are we? Yet, all we do is stumble.
Humans are made to stumble.
A human was never made to be divine.
Just a little rush, that's all I need
Where lies this ache?
I wonder if this seems like rubbish.
In all probability it is..
For a rush of thoughts can never make sense unless streamlined.
Or maybe not.

Sleep

One of those days when I hardly seem to know what's wrong with me. I feel ridiculously like everything is too perfect for me to take. Imagine someone complaining about things being too alright? I should feel blessed but instead why do I feel so wretched?

Truth is I have nothing substantial to write about. I don't feel any passion and I am bloody tired about writing about my feelings.

Nowhere me

I should have done this a long time ago. Make my blog my own stuff.. I think I need a plan. I need goals. I need to know what I want and not lose sight of it. I need focus. I need to block out all hindrances, all external pleasures to get what I want. And, I know its not going to come easy.

As I write this aimless post in an attempt to collect my thoughts, I already feel a sinking sense of loss. Yet I know I must do it. I read in the Gita that I am born in this pure and wealthy family only coz of the good deeds done in my past. I believe so. There seems to be no other explanation while some people receive a life of suffering and others receive a life of riches. The latter matters nothing. It's all what we make use of the present moment. The latter can be a life of dreadful suffering too coz riches don't equate to happiness. In fact, more often it leads to the opposite. Suffering and pain far worse than the relatively poorer person. It's just so twisted, clever and fascinating..

I got to leave for a dad-moms friends kids baptism now.. I think this space can be pretty worthwhile after all. Maybe this is how I can really egg myself to move forward.

Remembrances of an idyllic past

A field of golden sunflowers. They twist and turn in the mind’s eye. If you look closely, you can see the velvety softness of their petals from a distance. The honeybees buzz around eagerly. The yellow in them matches perfectly with their harbinger of quick, thick honey. Sleek green leaves adorn the flowers. A path is laid out in perfection. It leads to a thick hedge of grass beyond which lies a sloshing of something watery. Large green frogs are seen skipping lillypads which shiver as transparent dragon flies swoop in on them. Spring has sprung fresh and has just seen the first hint of summer rain. The country side was washed cleaner than ever before, much like neatly scrubbed floors of the tiny wooden house which stood peeping at the edge of the thicket.

A young girl quietly lays out her washing on the line tied to the windows of her house and a healthy oak tree. Her unruly hair restrained by a scarlet bandanna, she wore denim overallas and short white shirt. She had folded up the legs of her pants to reveal a shiny silver anklet with dolphin and star charms and squiggly tattoo showed on her left foot- one could not quite make out what it read. Nearby, a canvas held thick drawing paper. On it, were splashed dull violets and fiery oranges in dramatic strokes.

Was she a painter? One couldn’t tell. She quickly put her clothes on the washing line and carried and empty blue bucket, all the while shaking to an invisible tune possibly playing itself in her head. Rubbing her bare feet in the mat outside her wooden house, she stepped and shut the door behind her. She stared with a mix of half adoration and half exasperation at the bearded guy who was slumped in a heap of a mess on her couch. “Can you wake up already?” she poked him and hissed loudly, while pulling apart the curtains. A stream of sunshine spontaneously shone through the house. He woke up with a start, the morning rays hitting him like a mug of cold water thrown across. “What’s going on? Where am I” he drawled. “Eggs and toast are on the table. I should’ve known better than to bring you home. Can we forget that last night ever happened?” she stomped over the carpet picking up stray pieces of litter as she walked by. “Do you have orange juice? I so need some right now” he responded, while pulling up his pants which lay on the floor. “Hey, wait a minute. Did we sleep together last night or?” She did not respond. She was busy, clearing the dishes, her nose in the air and her lips pursued shut. She had this appealing way of looking sporty yet feminine, he thought idly. The body’s straight, but it’s in her face. She has this whole crisp hyper woman thing going on. Another thought escaped his sleep-starved head.

She was sneaking looks at him from a corner of her eye but she made an effort to not meet his full. “So when did you wanna you know get out of here?” she asked. “I don’t want to. I want to talk about last night. What did we do? I know I drank a quarter and a half bottle of whiskey before I passed out.” She stared at him indignantly. “Ya well, you did tell me about.. uhm.. you know what. Don’t tell me you can’t remember.” He stared blankly. What is it with women and them universally harping on details, he thought.

Last night, had been unbearably tender. Like lovers locked in an almost furious embrace. The words and silences tumbled wild and free. Yet, they had not made love.

To be contd..

Runaway brain

I am hit by a sudden way of nostalgia and strangeness about my life right now and what it was in the past. And all thats in between really. It's like feeling a rising tidal wave of something which is not hit shore and is just stuck momentarily in mid air, poised to crash but held back, in control. Am I supposed to let it wash over?

Room to Vent

I look for ways to flow free. Feels like they never can again.
Oh to feel like a whizzing cork bottle spitting wine. Needs to be corked again.
Who knows what the secret future may tell?
What misty candlelight obscures the way?
Try as I may seem far from empty
Empty thoughts alone kindle the light.
In a passionate fury you venture out to seek what has already been placed before hand.
Do not lose courage for courage comes to those who ask.
And not to those who claim to have it.
Fly away to lands unnoticed
Seek not to live in shadows of your dreams
How far you can go, you will never know
Unless your willing to risk yourself for it
And show yourself nakedly to the world
The glimpses viewed through the sheer curtain will fall through
There it reveals a blessing, I feel its love
How much to ask for? Too little?
I tire of knowing what is, yet clinging to what swims appealingly, morbidly
Same exhaustion, same routines, same circles
It crushes little by little, and revives all the same.
A moment of rest too soon gone by.
Piece by piece unfolded
But like an endless book, the story goes on and on
And here I am in a room to vent.

Livin' on the Edge

I want to do so much with my life.. see new places, meet new people, learn about other cultures, travel the world, carry around a zest for life which lies thumping in my chest like a heartbeat. We are bound by our circumstances most often, unable to do the things the heart desires. We then grow to live in impatience, losing faith in the things that move us the most. Over time, one learns to give in, fit in well, be part of the groove and forget the spunk and crazy and settle for less.

Sometimes I feel myself soar in leaps and bounds but at other times I am afraid to let myself to do so. I used to be a pretty dreamy, unrestrained person.. I lately realize how inwardly quiet I have become. The kind of person who knocks off all the irregular edges because irregular edges have hurt more than helped. Now the edges are straightened and what have I become? I yearn for that lust for life feeling again. I feel it still exists in me, albeit in a much more faded fashion.

Today I read about a guy who balances on cliffs and edges.. he literally lives his life on the edge. The guy embraces risk and has overcome his fear of falling off the edge. I yearn for such an exhilaration. I yearn for the next big turning point which will put me in a place where I can be challenged.

Where do I go now?

It's been ages since I wrote anything. It's so easy to get complacent.. to sit back and want little out of life when you are very comfortable with everything. I rarely post stuff spontaneously, I usually review it lots o times before I actually publish anything. A sign that I don't care to edit and revise.. I'm pretty cool with what's here.

Yet again, I find myself at tentative crossroads in my life. Struggling to know what I want.. and how to get there. I understand how some people get caught in the struggle of pursuit.. there is something productive in a struggle.. it makes you feel like you are doing something, going somewhere, making things happen. It is part of the joy of creating something of your own I guess. Right now I feel like I have nothing to struggle for, that things are easy. I should feel blessed instead that I have comforts, I have peace all around.. what gives then?

One important thing I have realized for myself is that - the grass is never green on the other side. What I have in my power is to make best use of the moment.. When I look back, I think I am constantly craving this freedom space which is my idea of well.. complete joy and harmony with the universe and nothing else. The frustrating side about wanting that for myself all the time is.. everything within the normal space of the everyday pales, I forget to enjoy simple things and keep wanting something extraordinary all the time. And, it slips my reach.. and I am left in a state of limbo unable to stay still to enjoy the simple present neither be caught up in the thrilling pursuit of the extraordinary.

Which way now?

Battle Of ?

When a generation of people with their own views and value system impose themselves on another generation of people with their own ways of doing things, how do the two meet? There is always a conflict which arises in such situations which result in widening gaps of frustration and turmoil, especially when both sides are hell bent on what they want and view the other as invasive of their personal space.

I think of these things while I deal with the accompanying angst which lived with me through my growing up years and ongoing. In dreary moments, I let myself almost succumb to despair, hurt and sense of hollowness. At other times, I force myself to rise up to the challenge of recognizing what is happening and why is it happening. It lies in my tendency to not let anything claw at me for too long. When it’s too much for me to take I snap out of the stupidity and pettiness of what I call the effect of the ‘funeral haunt.’ It is the haunt which plays moments when I feel dragged down to the bottom of the pit of a dark well.

So, we have a problem of what seems like endless and penetrating lack of reconciliation spewing a grey quality of ‘peacelessness’ is now born. The question I want to ask is, is there a way out? Or does the answer lie in one of those impossible, utopian realities? Is it a long winded, spirally path of negativity and pessimism where people proclaim to themselves that the situation is too intense to control. Maybe it takes too much out of them, maybe the impossibility of resolution throws them off track, maybe some lack the courage to face things head on, and maybe some are too proud to negotiate as a means to an end. Endless ways to avoid the seemingly endless problems which we have blown out of proportion in our own heads, to keep us away from them in a convoluted fashion.

Since I’ve acknowledged that a problem exists, I’d also like to say that I believe that all problems have solutions. By solution, I mean one right way of responding to the problem which will result in peace within us. Not to say that arriving at solutions and sticking to them is easy but to believe that there is always a right way out for any given solution no matter how over-powering. But, it is the most tricky and out-of-reach. How do I know for sure? I don’t. It’s a matter of holding on to a faith, a strong, blinding sense of overpowering belief that it can be resolved, no matter what. This might sound highly simplistic. It only sounds easy but getting there is a huge struggle and effort in itself.

The belief in a way out is re-inforced when I think about millions of people who go through life faced with hopelessness and what seems like impossible resolutions of conflict. People suffer in extremely harsh environments where they are the victims of power play. There are people who have no voice, no expression of self, no space to protest and constantly beaten and wounded emotionally by what is thrust upon them, simply by their circumstances. There are people, unlike others, who don’t choose to suffer but suffer by being born into the world. There is no escape for millions who lack the means, resources and support to help themselves. I often wonder how these people draw their courage when they are stuck in a situation where there is no room for any sense of self to exist with the ‘others’ will thrust upon them. I wonder why these people don’t kill themselves instead. I wonder what gives them the hope or will to still survive day after day, in spite of no escape from their daily versions of the ‘funeral haunt.’

If you ask me why is it important to think of people whose realities are so distant from mine and what role does reading about them play my life when they hardly touch mine, I’d say it’s to help me address my own problems. I believe that all people, as part of humanity, suffer in similar ways in varying degrees of hardships. To know how another, overcomes adversity, is to know a possible way of overcoming my own troubles. It may not help me right then, but it promises me, it gives me faith there is a way - that human courage triumphs over the darkest, funeral haunting days. It makes me believe that blinding quality of goodness can be drawn from within to shield ourselves from the most frightening pain of the worst kind. It gives me hope, to encounter my own problems by facing them squarely in the face.

If all problems and conflicts can be solved, I unfortunately have no answer if you ask me why do problems of poverty, war, unemployment – to name a few which sit firmly under the giant umbrella of Crap, still exist. It is safe to say that it is not a perfect world and problems, big, medium and small remain unresolved and bound by hopelessness. We may also feel many problems in our life are bound to remain resolved this way. I advocate a micro-analytic approach to how you can find a single way to solve a problem.

I feel that most people become unhappy when they avoid their problems by unconsciously focusing on the ‘it’s too hard’ part, to even acknowledge that a solution can be met. Sometimes, the difficulty of arriving and sticking to what looks like prospective solution can be so burdening, draining and painful that you start to believe its adversely conducive to your emotional health- that it makes people blind to their existence and hence blind to possibilities of reconciliation, however small. It unknowingly pushes them away from growth and further away from peace. Scott Peck described this in his ‘The Road less traveled.’ He simply says that people always look for ways to avoid legitimate suffering. This is something we know ourselves, but rarely do we try and examine how much this applies to our lives. If we closely analyze ourselves, we will find that, most of us, avoid pain more than we’d like to admit. The pain of confrontation, the pain of exposing ourselves and our weaknesses, the pain of securing ourselves for fear of losing ourselves, the pain of separation are everyday instances which are well-hidden and sometimes admittedly so, by the braver among us.

What is important here is the focus on the ‘It’s possible’ part. A belief, however small, in a solution of some kind, is the first step towards working to solve a problem. It is a small step towards committing ourselves to solve it, however hard and however long it takes. ‘It’s possible’ immediately opens us to a keyhole of light in the strong, stone, doorway which leads to the path which leads us the other side, to freedom.

I think central to the issue of conflict resolution, is the presence of the individual ego and how much importance or lack of importance we give it. Any kind of conflict involves two egos which are at battle. A weak ago, submits itself to subjugation by the other. A strong ego coerces and controls. Of course, it is not so simple and cut and dry. The real issues at hand are much more complex, more inter-twined and far reaching then we can identify and correct.

It is established that a sense of self, or an ego is instrumental in creating individualistic spaces of being and expression. It is a source of joy in the way we feed it – we feed it by our own efforts, our own giving to ourselves, our own respect and need for growth. We need our ego to feel good about ourselves, to accomplish and to be happy.

However, the ego can overpower and controls us at times, it dictates itself to us, it tricks us into false hopes, into false ways of feeling good about ourselves. Its propensity for providing us with strength also spells ways to can keep us bound to our weakness. Thus, it can be a cause for as much unhappiness and evil as a cause for joy and strength.

What causes conflicts to go on forever, is when both sides refuse to compromise for whatever reasons. It may be pride, attachment, need for attention, need to control etc.


People end up feeling threatened by the ‘other’ which makes them respond aggressively in order to preserve them or keep them away from the supposed unhappiness caused when our self is taken away from us. Maybe people feel weak, when they give up themselves or let another have his way in the blinded belief that in accommodating another is a loss to me. Maybe they live in delusions of fear, that others are looking to control, dominate and make us suffer.

Obsessing with winning over other people can become evil, of course – this is when the ego fills up an individual completely and every move is designed to please the ego continually. Hitler – power hungry and full of himself- clearly fits the bill.

I thought about these things and why the situations with my parents remain the same even when I am in my mid 20s. I am still bothered by them and their insistence on the way I lead my life. I am still not close to being an ideal kid because of diverging values – you name it, we disagree. I realize I’ve been a difficult kid and still am. Times have past but I have never been at peace because of unresolved past tension which spills on to this day and makes me murky.

I realized that there is lack of empathy and lot of selfishness on my part. I consider myself to important to me. My ego is too important to me and I am stubborn when it comes to bending to accommodate anybody else. The saddest part is, I bend for everybody else, except my parents. They have even pointed this out to me and I realize its true. It’s not because I loved them less, it’s just because I did not take the time to understand them properly because I always considered myself more important. My parents are in the background, they are taken for granted, they will be there for me – no matter what. This taken for granted-ness, is what makes me view them with hostility. A lack of understanding of how much my behavior shocks them and creates ‘funeral haunts’ for them, perpetuated by none other than me. I realize how much I contribute to their suffering and how much they try to accommodate me when I get stubborn and bratty.

In my interactions with my parents, I have realized that their intention is to not make me suffer on purpose. They take no joy in my suffering or in controlling me. They want me to yield to some of what they want for me, so that in doing so I recognize their presence in my life. In doing so, I acknowledge that they matter to me. It shows respect, it shows obedience and humility. All of which, I have never taken time to understand until now. All I have done so far is rebel when they restrict, disagree when they opine, scream and shout when they advise. I did not take the time to understand what lies beneath. It hurts them to know I value myself more than I value them when they in fact almost value me more than themselves.

This is not to say that I have to live my life according to everything they say and have none of my own, but to empathize with the fact that they suffer too – not only for themselves, but for me. Such is the power of parental love which I do not claim to understand yet. In taking time to first understand them, I got to know myself better, I got to know how to act, I got to know how I can resolve a particular situation. I finally, got myself a solution. It’s a matter of giving in when you know their need is more important than yours. It’s a matter of letting go of yourself to accommodate another. It’s a matter of considering yourself less important – of transcending yourself, your ego.

We tend to grapple with abstract notions of balance and its application when either set of extremes go out of hand. We land ourselves in trouble when we live in the world of extremes. So comes the question, how does the equation of give and take operate between two sets of people with divergent needs and opinions translate into a win-win situation for both parties concerned? The complexity of this answer lies by starting to have a genuine and focused interest in why other people act a certain way. I think knowing other people, will help you understand how to go about it. It gives you fantastic insights about how can you be at peace by solving the mystery of another. When you recognize the cause of the problem, you’ll know the solution is not far behind.

I am sometimes still annoyed by my parents and what they want for me. They still restrict me and subjugate me to their views which I don’t agree with. It’s still not easy to get along. I am still met with ‘funeral haunts’ of my past. I still am frustrated from time to time. However, one thing is slowly changing- the indifference which I met them with from my adolescence has now turned to quiet respect for another generation, another set of values, another set of rules which seems to work well for them. It’s to understand that those would not work for me but also to acknowledge the fact that somebody as close as my parents still holds them with importance. It’s to understand that my values are as difficult for them to hear as theirs are to me. It’s to admit to myself that I am difficult too and my ego gets blown out of proportion and not in my favour.

So, it’s difficult but no not irreconcilable. When there are parents, there is a lot of human and a lot more love. It’s crucial to recognize their human-ness and even more, the love.

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Over the hills and far away

I think I am mighty tired of the technology which is creeping into my life and destroying my peace of late! I know people say it all the time.. What is the world coming to these days and yada yada yada.. but I think it's getting more and more difficult to live as time goes on. And, I also think this is because there is so much progress on every level, met with the same level of possible imposing crap which threatens progress and acts as a deterrent to stability. Makes sense yeah.

It all comes down to. How do I use technology (gmail, facebook, twitter, youtube) for all the essentials yet not be so freaking dependent on it, so much so that I can't live without it! To not allow myself to let it control me? I know! but sometimes it's almost feels impossible. You need it to keep in touch, for music, entertainment, for making plans! Yet people managed fine without it and were happier probably (but sure they had other problems then) without it.

hmm! I know one way- to stay away and keep staying away as much as possible.

I'm craving a bit of a slow-down and some fresh green grass. And the sight of it, and the touch of it and the smell of it. I know this is what pushes people to backpack across the Himalayas(on a shoe string budget) in search of it. Very few of us have the courage and conviction to do what the heart desires. I try. First step - search for small ways of getting closer to what you want. And bathe in the joy of them.
This probably sounds romantic and harder than the words I typed, but its the exact title of my post - It's where I want to get to. And how!

The man who walked

Once there was a man who walked
Oft across the dark path
For no fault of his
Yet twas he who chose
Where he tread and where he walked.
There was once a time
When his bold and courage
Drove him to the top of where
all the world he could see
He mastered himself
Through offering and goodness
Swore against vice
Yet was still the man who women sought
For with him, there hearts and minds they buried.
Still long ago driven by deception and pain
He looked to free his worthless soul
Which grew tainted by clouds of dark
He wept but the past could not be buried
Which was when he had a spark.
Still earlier, there was a boy who grew
His laughter on the court remained
He had comfort and love and joy and riches
Sweet sparkling eyes, fixed in a frame.
Like two halves of a whole, it twists and turns indefinitely
All of good is devoured by evil
But good rises up again
For the man who walks in darkness
Will one day no more take that path again

The painting

The wind, it howled one fearful night
The distant crashing waves, it sprayed
A lonely tree of awesome might
It grew, but withered in its shade
The rain, it fell so thick and bleak
Whipped up images of grey
Not close, not far, no soul to speak
Unhinged, the battered tree upon the ocean spray
The cold it crept upon the sand
And numbed travelers near and far
Who saw scenes of bliss unfold itself
While the tree battled on its own land
No lighthouse shone the whole way through
No beam, no road, no distant light
For weary travelers and boatmen few
No light for the damp tree by the side.
Ships that cast their lives aside,
Break across the cliff in furious rage
Stripped off robes by mirthless deride
The show goes on, but comes of age
The lighthouse gaveth no shade
Neither did the ship nor sailor
Respite from warmth, the tree gave away
And looked for other places inside.
The dampness had set in deep
Of a quality, gnawed in and soft
To find some warmth, it must weep
No stranger to its ideals loft.
It flickers and burns and grows again
Despite the darkness which oft creeps over
Rises above the sad, the shame
And rests in peace over n over
The tree of life and all that we're told
Stands by the edge, in pain but glory
A single flame of life behold
Gave a soul to its endless story
A painting it stood, it hung on a wall
To some, nothing but a cruel stance
To some, a story of hope and bliss
To some, merely a picture, no words
To some, a languid work of art
To some, a true story
What you see, so will remain
The painting or the tree or the soul of glory.

Fallin'

I'm going through a very restless period in my life right, alternating between numbness and emotion and its been going on for quite a while. I now realize that I've been subconsciously trying to bury the issues by immersing myself in everything else other than addressing it. When I'm numb I want to feel again and when I feel I don't wanna experience that either. I'm not unhappy but I badly want to find some stability and passion. Can there be passion and stability at once? I don't know. I guess I really, badly need a cause to be passionate about and put my heart and soul into.

Even as I write this there are hundred thoughts which surge through my mind waiting to settle and take shape and form and meaning. I'm stuck in a contradicted mess and I am struggling to find a sense of higher ground. The sense of confusion has been around for just too long now.. and everything I spend time on has become a useless waste of energy. Life, as i now know, is a constant struggle, every moment of it. And if you don't win every moment, you pay that much by the loss of it. Sounds harsh, but I believe its true. Because, I've seen the waste, the pointlessness of it. It feels miserable but most of the time I don't realize it until much later. But to win every moment is to be God-like I guess. Calling it God-like makes me wanna win every moment lesser bcoz I straightaway start thinking I can't do it. So I take that back.

I need a mantra to hold on to while facing difficult situations. And the lack of it is causing me to be this dead person I don't like much. Need to find my own, coz what worked one time doesn't work now coz that took a different kind of facing I guess. I need contentment so bad. The last time I felt alive was on New Years Eve I want that again!

Heart of ice

I have a long way to go
I need a plan to protect the core of my heart
And keep it far away from all which can penetrate the aura of its existence
I keep it out there for cold breeze to erode at it like melting snow
All fragments of truth buried deep within
Frozen into one piece and bound by its icy fingers
The heart so wholesome and pure freezes up

And, I never got down to finishing it :(

All is NOT Quiet on New Years Eve

Email sent about NY, wanted to keep this before it gets lost within the entrails of my inbox.


If you google London eye.. its this giant wheel thing which is a famous landmark in London.. its besides the river thames and near the most famous buildings in central london like the big ben etc.. BANG in the centre.. and the whole place looks so amazingly beautiful at night when its all lit up that photos can never do justice as much as i try n capture it. me n a bunch of other people got there at 7pm for the countdown and NY celebrations.. 7pm!! 5 hours before the actual fireworks show .. you need to get there THAT early to get the best view. so you can imagine the number of people who gathered there.. People from all over the world and all nationalities. thousands n thousands of them. We stood there in the freezing cold.. my fingers n toes numbed outta feeling huddled up.. 1 hour passed by, we settled on the cement ground which froze our behinds but cudnt stant for so long.. 2 hrs and then they started playing the radio on loudspeaker n they played a lot of fun popular hip hop and brit pop music.. i had keep dancing on my feet to keep me not frozen. its colder becoz there is this cold wind coz where we were standing was right beside the river.

The DJ had to keep blabbering to keep people's spirits up.. and keep the crowd all loud and buoyant. there was crazyness of course.. one guy stood up in the crowd n proceeded to strip topless while the crazy crowd cheered.. IT WAS FREEZING i must say again.. so he must be so drunk! the giant London Eye in front of us kept changing colours in blue, purple, green, yellow and red. There is a Shell building right next to the London Eye where they beam coloured lights for the crowd. apparently last year ppl sent text msgs which they beam onto the building. And somebody proposed.. heh how cute is that! but very public (no pvt moment sorts doncha think)
man i always find Indians in the UK annoying coz one, they cling together, speak loudly in hindi and litter the place and make a mess!! All the Indians in the crowd of course went crazy wen they played this on brit radio - punjabi MC :O http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJztXj2GPfk&feature=related hehe this is the song.. I was so amazed bcoz it was such an international crowd but the song managed to find its way on the radio.. me felt kicked lol.. and totully in love with my inner indianness

So we waited n waited n waited.. n waited on our feet.. unbearable cold as the night wore on. crowd grew people gathered closer and pretty soon i cudnt move an inch! i killed time by whining n complaining bout the cold to whoever was nearby, ( you know how i get during extreme heat and cold conditions lol) singing along to blur and the killers and black eyed peas songs and jumping up n down whenever i cud. People kept yelling when the DJ encouraged them to.. he kept saying the BBC is watching is point your cameras at the London eye and flash 1,2,3 go.. ppl were so happy to do pointless things like that

So half an hour left, 20 mins, final 10 mins.. people getting all excited and crowd murmers.. and the countdown begins (it was beamed on the building) I felt excited anticipation as though there was something waiting for me when the minute was up.. 10, 9,8, 7.. (acutely aware that I was one of the ant like individuals the crowd and the same countdown was taking place all over the world at diff time zones, also felt like i was watching myself on TV- some kind of glorious in the moment excitement) 6, 5 4 3 2 1 and Lo and Behold! ( i am not moses but for effect helloo) the sky actually burst into a brilliance of light and colour and my heart stopped beating for a split second coz that moment was so incredible, the sky was aglow with light and ohmygod ohmygod i thought i died and gone to heaven coz well coz i cant describe the next 15 mins of my life was so elevating. the most spectacular display of fireworks i have ever seen in my life.. intricate shapes in the sky coloured by light and design, twisting and turning and changing shapes.. starry ones which swivel and turn and bounce and come from nowhere and the collide and run at each other and they just go on n on .. it was like SEX FOR THE EYES. and good lord i wasnt aware the kind of beauty they could humanly hav made possible explode in the sky like that with fireworks. it just took my breath away and left me speechless and open mouthed coz WORDS CANNOT DESCRIBE WHAT I SAW! i was hyper excited and and fluttery with joy

In that moment, the waiting, the cold, the frustration of standing for hours on my feet disappeared and I was left with a profound sense of bliss.. like happiness exploding in my heart or smthn. some unity of mankind stuff.. heh.. we are all one and we all saw something so special and beautiful together... some bond i felt.. some african dude in front of me was like happy new year and i felt so happy to wish him bak or smthn.. and they played Auld Lang Syne (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lvJRmdN9iyU&feature=fvw) (dont grin im feeling enthu right now) after the show and we all held hands n sung it with emotion. and of course i was choked up by now :D i thought of each one of you and my family when i was singing it.. a brief bless you sorts. and the icing on the cake.. it started snowing :) so cute!! some lil drops from the sky.. i forgot i was cold and proceeded to catch them in my mouth. as sweet as that sounds its actually an extremely futile thing to do. i felt so blessed, like soo blessed in opportune-ness and being there in the moment.

sigh only. this was my best new years EVER and my best london moment (so far)

i wanted to put this down asap before all the feeling n emotion fade away.. coz that is bound to happen once i sleep n wake up